Sunday, August 14, 2011

wedding dress

What Style Wedding Dress Will Be the Most Flattering for Your Figure? By Dora Chupp 


Choosing a wedding dress can be a heady experience and often an emotional one. We look at magazines and wedding websites. We dream and discuss our ideas with our families and friends. We can so easily ride those waves of emotion. When we see those beautiful gowns of satin, ruffles, embroidery and lace, we can so easily make a quick or impulsive decision and end up with a beautiful dress that is just not quite right for us. We end up having to have expensive alterations done or exchanging it altogether.

How can you choose the perfect style wedding dress that accentuates the positive qualities of your figure and hides those areas that you don't want to draw attention to?

Red Color Wedding Dress
It really helps to have a picture in your mind and a list in your hands, of what body type and shape you have. Once you know the best style choices for your figure, then the real fun starts. You are going to look absolutely stunning because your wedding dress is going to reflect and celebrate you, as a beautiful bride, looking your best.

Let's start with taking an honest look in the mirror. Few people have a perfect figure. We all have something that we would change if we could, so be honest about what you see. Make notes of what you see. List your size, weight, shape, your best and least favorite feature. You want to choose a style that shows off your best features and hides what you don't want to draw attention to. If you have large or wide hips you probably don't want to highlight them. If you have a tiny waist then you want to define it. If you are petite, you will want a style that will make you appear taller. No matter what your body type or shape might be, full figure, curvy, or a pear or triangle shape, there is a style that will be just right for you. Ask a friend or family member to help you identify the positives and negatives of your body type and figure and then choose a style of wedding dress that will work best for you.

The most common styles of wedding dresses and some pros and cans are;

Ball gowns, think of Cinderella, these gowns have a fitted bodice, defined waist and often a full skirt. This is a great style for thin, tall figures, slight pear shapes, small hourglass shapes or if you have a large bust. Avoid this style if you have large hips, are short, have a heavy pear or large hourglass shape.

A-line, think of draping naturally all the way down to the hem with the skirt looking like an A shape. This is a simple style that has vertical seams flowing from the shoulders on down. This style will work for almost everyone. It is great for short waists, full figures, large waistlines and generally has a slimming effect.

Princess, this style usually does not have seams at the waist. The skirt will typically have at least three vertical panels. This is another great choice for most body types, it will make almost everyone look taller and slimmer.

Empire Cut, this style typically is straighter than the A line although not body fitting, with a raised waistline starting right below the bust that will flow all the way to the hem. Most body types will be able to wear this style. It is a good choice for brides with smaller busts, because it tends to draw attention to the neckline and face. It will make you appear taller.

Sheath or column style, this style is meant to follow the natural curves of your body. It is very flattering if you are slender. However, avoid this style if you have a problem area that you don't want emphasized.

Mermaid or Trumpet style, this type of gown will emphasize your curves and hips, drawing attention to the back of the dress and will usually have a lot of draping from the knees on down. This looks great on hourglass figures but avoid this style if you have a protruding tummy or big hips.

Choosing the shape and style of your wedding dress does not have to be complicated. Taking the time to determine what will look best on your figure and understanding the styles of wedding dresses available, will make finding that perfect-for-you wedding dress easier and a lot more enjoyable.

Dora Chupp is a free lance wedding florist, volunteer counselor and aspiring affiliate marketer. She lives in the heart of Ohio's Amish country, enjoys her family, friends, great books, good coffee, cooking, long walks and sewing. Yes, I have sewn modest wedding dresses in the past. You can find out more at http://www.modestweddingdresses-4u.com
 

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Kannada Pre Wedding Rituals

Well if you thought is Indian wedding is only a single day affair, you are definitely in for a surprise. Traditionally, wedding celebrations in India extend almost a week long and incorporates pre-wedding, wedding and post wedding rituals. In Karnataka, wherein Kannada wedding is practiced, marriage is a lengthy affair and constitutes of many rituals that are practiced before the actual D-Day. After the fixing of the union, the horoscopes of bride and the groom are matched and a date for the engagement party is set. Nischay Tamulam, Naandi custom, Kaashi Yatre tradition and Dev Karya ceremony are some of the ceremonies that take place as the pre wedding rituals. To get details about each of the pre-wedding Kannada rituals, browse through the following lines.

Kannada Pre Wedding Customs

Nischay Tamulam or Fixing of the Alliance
In the betrothal ceremony, the parents of both the bride and the groom agree for the marriage of their children. While the groom's family, present the bride with a sari, blouse piece, coconut and fruits, the bride's family gift the groom a dhoti, coconut and many fruits. As this ritual of exchange of gift takes place, the priest recites mantras.

Naandi Custom
Naandi custom is performed by both the groom as well as bride's family in their respective homes. This is done to ensure that the marriage takes place smoothly.

Kaashi Yatre Tradition
As a part of Kaashi Yatre tradition, the bridegroom pretends that he is very angry and leaving for Kashi yatra because nobody is making an effort to find a suitable bride for him. He makes an announcement of his Brahmacharya. He stops only when his maternal uncle persuades him by showing him the girl that he has chosen for him. Or else he makes an offer of marrying his own daughter to him.

Dev Karya Ceremony
Traditionally, this ceremony is performed on the day of the arrival of the groom's family to the girl's village. All the items of marriage are placed in front of the idol of Lord Ganesha, to seek his divine blessings. Thereafter, turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom, to lend glow to their skin. This takes place in their respective houses.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Kannada Wedding Ceremony

Unlike the other parts of India, wedding in Karnataka is not a glittering or resplendent affair. It, instead, is a simple affair that mostly is concerned with the practice of rituals and traditions. Kannada wedding is the marriage of kannadigas, as the people of Karnataka call themselves, and is based on their regional cultures and traditions. Though the ritual detailed in this section is that of a typical Kannada wedding, one should remember that there are different social communities in Karnataka and that the wedding rituals followed by each of them may vary a little.

Kannada wedding ceremony is full of fun and frolic. Though simple and least colorful, it is based on culture and faith on God. One of the most prominent features about the Kannada wedding is the practice of numerous rituals performed pre, per and post wedding day. Much before the wedding ceremony is due to take place; all the members in the family are engaged in preparations and organizations that are quintessential. The rituals practiced are simple and allow the families to have a good time together. If you are looking for detailed information about the Kannada matrimonial customs and traditions, look no further as given below are the traditional Kannada marriage rituals.

Kannada Pre Wedding Rituals
Well if you thought is Indian wedding is only a single day affair, you are definitely in for a surprise. Traditionally, wedding celebrations in India extend almost a week long and incorporates pre-wedding, wedding and post wedding rituals. In Karnataka, wherein Kannada wedding is practiced, marriage is a lengthy affair and constitutes of many rituals that are practiced before the actual D-Day.

Kannada Wedding Rituals
Wedding is one of the most blissful celebrations in one's life. In India, there is no specific wedding rituals and tradition. Different parts of the country celebrate differently. The Kannada wedding, that takes place in Karnataka, is marked by a number of unique rituals, which are practiced before, on and after the wedding day. Kannada wedding, unlike the resplendent marriage which takes place in other parts of India, is a simple affair.

Kannada Post Wedding Rituals
Wedding not just about the actual ceremony, but comprises of rituals and traditions that are practiced before and after the wedding. While mostly the days before the actual day is spent preparing and organizing for the day, post wedding rituals are far more relaxed and are mostly involved with welcoming the new bride.